Definition. A person is mature to the degree that he gives things their importance. Nothing less! She is the person capable of seeing things with a remarkable degree of objectivity. Someone with responsibility, if he is mature, is very leading. The immature has a head full of birds. As a child immaturity is normal; The bad thing is to continue being one as an adult. Audit yourself in these 10 points that continue without question. Score yourself from 0 (zero) to 10 (ten), handling the entire scale and without being condescending to yourself. It could be of good help to you; especially, of course, if you are mature.
1.- WAY TO THINK My score ____
a) I heartily admit the way of being, that of my parents, my teachers, how they educated me, the story of my life, my personality, my educational level, my husband / wife, my friends, my house, my psychological qualities and the luck of my life in all its aspects. (Score 10).
b) There are some of those aspects that I find difficult to admit and that I reject. (Score 0).
2.- PHYSICAL ASPECT My score ____
a) I willingly admit my physical conditions in every way, face, hands, hair, height, weight, age, appearance, health status. (Score 10).
b) There are things about my physique that I don't like very much and that I reject. (Score 0).
3.- AUTOCRÍTICA My score ____
a) My behavior in general, I try to improve it and re-educate myself. I take actions frequently and do a lot of things to that end, struggling to outdo myself. (Score 10).
b) I have little hope because it is difficult to improve and I do not work hard. (Score 0).
4.- FOCUS My score ____
a) In conversations or social, work or other meetings, I am really interested in the problems, difficulties and ways of thinking of others. (Score 10).
b) I am concerned with my way of thinking and seeing things. If necessary, I am the protagonist and I have the singing voice. (Score 0).
5.- RELATION My score ____
a) In relation to others, I am above all affectionate, benevolent, friendly, understanding, affable and cordial. (Score 10).
b) Even if I have a good relationship with them, I am concerned about being fair and objective and giving each one their own. If necessary, I tell the truth when it is clear to me. (Score 0).
6.- UNDERSTANDING My score ____
a) I cope well with the shortcomings and failures of others and colleagues. I do not disqualify them and strive to understand them. (Score 10).
b) Sometimes it bothers me that people do not want to be what they are (Score 0).
7.- REACTION My score ____
a) When I have foreseen practically everything, I have done the right thing and things do not go as planned or are delayed, I understand that things are difficult and that they require time and patience. (Score 10).
b) I feel frustrated. (Score 0).
8.- OPINIONS My score ____
a) On the different usual aspects of life in general, perhaps my opinions may be wrong. I can perfectly understand the other's point of view, and appreciate and deepen it even if it is different or opposite to mine. (Score 10).
b) My opinions are studied and thought, I see them clearly and defend them. I am well informed. (Score 0).
9.- COMMITMENT My score ____
a) In agreements with partners, family, friends, I am willing to give in willingly, even in aspects that would legitimately correspond to me. I am certainly generous. (Score 10).
b) I demand that I be given what corresponds to me in justice. (Score 0).
10.- LEISURE My score ____
a) My leisure and fun, vacations, readings, etc., are such that they enrich my inner life. (Score 10).
a) My leisure is conceived as escaping from my surroundings and breaking with everything. (Score 0).
Rough interpretation
MY AVERAGE NOTE: ADD THE 10 SCORES AND RUN A DECIMAL____
If your average grade is 6 to 8 (it is unlikely to reach 9), you have the right attitudes to be a good friend, to create a team that works in a stable way or to be a good spouse.
If your grade is 4 to 6, your level of maturity is not so high, you need a review to enhance your leadership. Be careful with the things that "you are sure of". Perhaps you might be aware that you need that improvement in your mindset.
If your average mark was 2 to 4, you will not know it because all this will be considered silly and you could hardly have endured reading this far due to excessive prejudice.
He will make others suffer for his own behavior, and he will blame them on top of it.
