It is reproduced over and over in the journal of each day. At the impending minute of every hour it is pronounced persistently. It is a constant "K" that roams continuously in the waves affecting reason, logic and sanity. It is a "K" that manifests very subjective, not suggestive, alterations in the perception of something known as feeling and / or emotion.
What am I talking about? There are questions that corrode any individual more than the fact of thinking about death itself. This time these questions are transformed into phrases accompanied by musical notes that sound like glory. They are messages transmitted as if they were "absolute truths". Do you still not know what I mean? Does the following sound familiar to you?
- Without you I am nothing.
It is one of the greatest successes of a Spanish musical group that I do not criticize in any way. I only evaluate the content of the lyrics of the song.
To say, maintain, proclaim, announce and sustain even if it is singing that "without you I am nothing" referring to what love is, is not actually saying anything.
That a relationship is based on what the other party offers and not on what one has, is to support or try to build something on the unreal.
In no way do I share that couples' relationships are based on what the other offer. It is a tremendous mistake in my opinion. Why? Simple like everything. Although this relationship lasts a lifetime and ends in the death of one of the parties, the other that remained of what the extinct offered, ends in a deep and dark void.
Love is never depending on the love of another.
Love is never needing the love of the other.
Love is never holding on to the love of the other.
Love is, in reality, sharing that which is owned as one's own, with that which already exists on the other side.
Yes, I have written Love with capital letters, because love with lowercase letters is a drug, an addiction; it is ultimately a lack of freedom. Instead, Love is freedom. Expanding freedom. Freedom without limits. This is Love.
Love is never a necessity, as another famous song claims when it cries "I need your love". What do you need from another's love to live? So we have a very clear diagnosis: You do not know what Love is. Or, to put it in a more emphatic way: you do not possess it. And there is an unwritten law in this life that is emphatic: "one cannot give what one does not have". If you have Love, you can give it and share it. But if that love is based on what another can offer, it is that there is no Love. What is known as love, are only exuberant sensations and emotions that have their days numbered. However, when you have Love, sharing it is not complicated, and never, as Peter Pan would say, you live in the state of needing, depending or sustaining yourself on what another person offers, yes instead,in sharing on equal terms without in any way being able to experience what another well-known melody proclaims with “I can't live without you” because each one manages to live in one and the other simultaneously without silencing or trample, but magnifying, illuminating and magnifying what is already possessed in the other by sharing it with absolute freedom without preventing limits in that mutual experience.
Love is freedom, not slavery. Love is sharing. Slavery is needing, depending or sustaining itself in something that governs it without regard.
You choose: freedom or slavery. Love or love. Share what you own without loss or beg to receive crumbs of feelings or emotions empty of essence.
