We are always fighting against the challenges of the world and many people tend to take a step backwards in their self development and self determination, but this is related to the energy of thought.. What's the point in all of this? It seems that every step we take, someone always comes our way, trying to push us back. There are never dull moments in life. For the simple reason that most of the people in the world spend a lot of time in their lives criticizing others and trying to force the people they relate to to adjust their thinking to theirs or their way of thinking. behave, etc. When they do not conform to their norms, these people who are dominant, try to pressure to do so. But this is never a good escape route.
Most people have conformist attitudes towards life. This is a problem, because they sit around waiting for things to happen to them and they don't try to put their energy into making things happen the way they wanted them to.
We always feel that the problems never end. Although we face problems, we must restructure our way of thinking, towards an attitude of a nonconformist person, in order to try to survive this fast- paced way of life that we have to live. Most people believe that this type of person causes problems or threats to society.
Contrary to your way of thinking, a nonconformist person is an eccentric thinker, has a free spirit and does not allow humanity to tell him how to rule, they do not go against the "laws of nature". They defend what they believe and their self determination is a form of constant personal monitoring, they are based on the defense and protest of what is working well for them.
People in the world strive for success and away from failure. There may be times when they can't do it, they fail.
When the result is positive, they feel happy and content because all the efforts they put in paid off when they needed it most.
But there are times that no matter how hard they put all their effort, they do not achieve the result they want because they face difficult situations and this causes a feeling of frustration. In reality, failure is the key to success. Failure can cause some disappointment and deteriorates our effort, these are the challenges that are presented to us, we must accept them, fight and take the measures so that you regain control of your life.
I am going to give you an example so that you can clearly see what I am trying to explain to you, one day a child had an accident where he lost his left hand. I really wanted to learn judo. After much pressure on his parents, they decided to hire a personal teacher for him. The judo teacher taught him a single lesson, on the day of his competition, the boy was consecrated champion of the match. Then his teacher told him that what he had taught him was the only blow that could save his life, because otherwise he would need his left hand to defend himself.
The child and his parents understood that there are moments in a person's life, that the most important thing is to turn weaknesses into strength. We must not underestimate ourselves and follow our inner feelings for personal development.
It does not matter the obstacles that we may encounter along the way, but these must be transformed into challenges for us, that these help us to maintain our self-determination, so that we continue to grow internally.
If you let obstacles obstruct your progress on your way, promoting negative thoughts, negative behaviors and bad attitudes, you will not gain anything to be happy in your life. The people who decide to have these bad attitudes in the face of the events that happen to them, unfortunately, do not end well, they cause situations that can lead to their death all the time.
Hatred, doubts, fear, resentment towards people will not attract personal success, for that reason, you must strengthen your self-determination and continue your development process in order for you to survive in this world. Don't worry about trying to fit into the world, but try to fit into your own shoes and take control of your life.
