Use your eyes to speak
The eyes are the windows to the soul. The person who looks cleanly into the eyes of others is a confident, friendly, mature and sincere person. Your eyes and your gaze can say so much because they express practically all emotions: joy, sadness, restlessness, tension, worry, esteem or respect. By his eyes you can often tell what he is thinking. Through that, they create a strong help in the conversation.
Proper use of hands
Your hands can be used very well to complement your words and give more force to your conversation. Do not use them uselessly and much less to do anything that distracts the other person. Also, do not use them violently, slapping or rubbing them almost in the face of the other person.
Be careful what you touch
There are many people who are always clapping on the back or touching others on the arms, as if to get their attention. It is good to show affection, but you also have to show due respect to others. Show it not touching the other person unnecessarily. Some people feel very annoyed if they touch them, be careful. But don't talk or listen with your hands in your pockets either because that denotes indifference and rudeness.
Gestures that denote impatience or boredom
The physical attitude shows what the soul is feeling. If someone pretends to be interested in a conversation, the other person will easily notice by your gestures and gestures. Fidgeting or getting up, crossing and uncrossing your legs, moving in your seat, or constantly looking at the clock shows boredom and is grossly disrespectful. If you have to look at the time, do it on someone else's watch.
Learn to sit
Learn to sit still and behave when listening. Evenly distribute the weight of your body so as not to tire you while you are sitting talking. If you sit on the edge of the chair, it is indicative that you want to leave as soon as possible.
If you constantly change positions, you are screaming that you are bored. If you move your feet incessantly during the conversation, your interlocutor will think that you are upset, insecure, irritated, nervous, tired or bored. Get into a comfortable and rested position that allows you to breathe better and handle your voice better.
Gaze control
When you're talking to someone, don't be looking everywhere: at the window, the ceiling, the floor, or cleaning their nails. Do not look morbidly and curiously at the shoes, pants, shirt or hairstyle of which he speaks. Maintain eye contact, but do not fix your gaze too much: crazy people do that.
Anyway, if you want to fix your gaze on someone for a long time without getting psychologically tired, look at his brow. For the other there is no difference.
Control of facial expressions
Smile! Inserting warm, candid smiles into your conversation conveys confidence, joy, and good will. However, don't overdo it. Smiling too frequently can turn the gesture into a kind of grimace and give the impression that it is something hollow, empty and fake.
Pressing your lips excessively can reveal that you have doubts or mistrust about what the other is saying or suggest that you are not really expressing what you think or feel.
