When I analyze and think about the healing or healing processes, the idea of having to let go and let go scares me. Many times this terrifies me more than enduring or tolerating tons of pain.
Perhaps because of habit, custom, culture or simply because I don't feel like being "free". Has this ever happened to you ??? I don't know for sure, but the people who write to me reacting to my writing convince me that in the victims of mobbing or psychological harassment there is a serious codependency and attachment to the circumstances and facts that cause them “pain, a lot of pain”.
According to Robin Norwood, author of many famous books including "Women who love too much" I quote in his book Why this? Because right now? Why me? That the person who is physically ill, is cured only when that illness is relieved or disappears? we will come to understand that our whole being, physical and non-physical, is influenced by any positive change in consciousness. Such is the esoteric vision of evolution applied to the human species. Many of life's difficulties, viewed from an esoteric perspective, reveal the opportunities they provide for the kind of healing. It may be useful, at this point, to offer a somewhat radical new definition of healing, recognizing the existence of planes more subtle, deeper, and more important than the physical, in which we can heal.This new definition consists of six basic premises.
1- Deep healing includes a change of attitude and therefore an expansion of consciousness.
2- The cure of a physical condition or disease does not necessarily imply that a significant cure has taken place.
3- The continuation of a physical state or disease, even if death occurs, does not necessarily imply that there has NOT been a significant cure.
4 -In the emotional field, the greater the trauma, the greater the possibility of a significant healing.
5- At the level of thought, the greater the distortion of the belief system, the greater the healing, provided that the distortion is corrected.
6- The healing of the individual affects the healing of all humanity; the healing of humanity as a whole affects the healing of the entire planet.
We can accept these six points of the new definition of healing if we envision our supposed personal tragedies in a broader field, including past, present and future, family and friends, society as a whole, and ultimately the entire human species.. This perspective also requires recognizing that our non-physical parts, our emotional and mental aspects, may be even more in need of healing than the physical part. Hence, mobbing or psychological harassment that is a tyrannical, savage act, to the dignity, moral, honor and self-merit of a person is considered as a “psychoterrorist act” against the soul, the internal being and the life of a being human. however let's see,What happens in each of these six postulates presented by Norwood (2004) in relation to what really prevents the victim or survivor of “mobbing” to achieve their true healing or cure.
1-Deep healing always includes a change of attitude and therefore an expansion of Consciousness.
This postulate is very difficult for many mobbing victims to do and apply. His mind is full of unresolved conflicts, full of intimidating and threatening thoughts, his body exhausted, tired and very sore from insomnia, anxiety, anguish and most of all the possible medications already show their results in weight loss, Dark circles, personal carelessness or simply an overreaction to everything that transformed you from a loving, sweet and peaceful being into a cynical, ironic and very defiant one… the expansion of consciousness comes from the inner being to the mind. that "spiritual" world that many victims of assaults, rapes, attacks etc…. do not know or want to recognize as the internal power that changes your thoughts and your ideas from the negative to the positive: for example: a severely abused, assaulted person, betrayed,Injury, it is very unlikely that when you talk to him about love, peace, harmony, he will believe you: or he laughs at you, or makes fun of or answers: “does that exist? ha ha, don't make me laugh. the function of the one who hears you say this is not to change your comment or attack or despise it. just answer: yes, it exists.
I see him every day. Love is in me, in you. And it is so wonderful and Divine that I believe in it and look for it in Everything. " Possibly laugh again, but different now. Doubt??? It could be. The important thing is to make your Being see that You Decide the change. That you have the power to change your thoughts which you transform into negative attitudes, which you let see in your behavior. This is so and it starts from the inside out and never the other way around. And no one will do it for you.
2- The cure of a physical condition or disease does not necessarily imply that a significant cure has taken place.
Perhaps, when a person suffers from a recurring physical discomfort such as migraine or severe headache, ear pain or pain in an area of the upper part where the brain, cerebellum and therefore the mind is a clear indicator of that you are an extremely rational, intellectual being and that through knowledge you develop the defenses of your actions, attitudes and turn it into reality. In other words, a successful professional, with an excessive workload and "Labor Stress", it is not surprising that you have this symptomatology in your physical body. By this I do not mean that these conditions are suffered by a stressed worker only. However Louis Hay (1998) in his book "You can heal your life" establishes a significant correlation between physical and mental illnesses. Also,experts who have studied mobbing or psychological harassment such as Pinuel and Zabala (1999) Hirigoyen (2000) have mentioned in their writings many physical pathological conditions that come as consequences of psychological abuse. The International Labor Organization (2004) presented impressive findings on these issues of physical, psychosomatic diseases and serious conditions already identified with Mobbing that a person suffers or experiences after or at the time that their dignity, morals, self-esteem, self-worth are attacked. and inner courage destroying her self confidence, her faith in herself and her self love. Therefore, even when a Mobbing victim goes to the doctor and is diagnosed with a physical or mental illness such as depression, anguish, anxiety, paranoia,hyper vigilance or aggressiveness if this person is cured of his physical or mental illness without internally healing the emotional wound and what caused this manifestation in his life it is very likely that when he suffers an attack on his dignity or his morals he will have these again symptoms and conditions and undoubtedly at higher risk levels such as tachycardia, cardiac arrest or strokes. What in a given moment could incapacitate it and leave it in a vegetable state. In the case of depression, if it becomes serious or severe, the individual could reach involuntary self-suicide or simply Voluntary Suicide. That is why the fact that the cure of the physical illness has occurred without the Inner change does not guarantee Deep Healing or simply a significant change. The three dimensions must be given: mind,body and internal being.
3- The continuation of a physical condition or illness does not necessarily imply that there has not been a significant correction.
There are many, many reasons why a person could continue to feel the discomfort and discomfort of an illness in their physique or body. For example, not having a healthy eating discipline that stops symptoms, being a hypochondriac @, needing to attract attention, having or feeling like a victim of a particular circumstance. There are many reasons including having a true genetic condition, virus or bacteria lodged in your body despite having shed anger, rage, anger or simply negative feelings, thoughts or attitudes that undoubtedly led to this person to suffer from this disease. The detachment in many victims of Mobbing helps and contributes positively to the mental detoxification of pain, or recurrent events of grief, fear, sadness, etc…. However, it is not enough !!!Why?
Because a person addicted to pain desperately needs this evil to justify his existence on this plane. Without knowing that he has possibly already internally healed the memory and the events that led him to depression, or more serious conditions that were reflected in physical illnesses due to deep wounds. The process in each individual is different and different and what works in one person is not necessarily valid and gives good results in another. Therefore our physical healing is achieved, even when we do not realize it if we learn to heal internal health.
4-On the emotional level, the greater the trauma, the greater the possibility of a significant healing.
Emotional pain could not be measured quantumly. Unfortunately, in our current society, one should not even talk about what happened. there are misfortunes for crimes, murders, assaults, rapes that promote their morbidity in the press because it is "first impact" news. and people, it seems, like the morbid, overwhelming, macabre and do not take into account the pain, suffering, grief, tears and long chains with trauma and unresolved conflicts in this life-long existence. how sad to market and negotiate with the suffering of others ”. But it happens and the worst happens every day. However, an immensely deep trauma, great worked from love,The intrinsic value of the inner being and with the strength and energy of spiritual purification without attachment to what happened or was is very likely to reach a greater elevation of healing and resurrection to new life. just as we saw in Christ, made man. His resuscitation from the dead is a clear sign for those of us who believe in his healing power, overwhelming proof that life from the dead can be created. it does not matter, that what you think is or has been so negative and disastrous as not to start again. mobbing victims have many open wounds, unhealed pain, anger, rage, sadness and most of all internal frustrations that transformed into severe, severe and acute depressions. His greatest anger may have been the impotence of not being able to assert himself and respect himself as a human being. and also, that they did not believe in its truth.But, what is really the reason why many who have suffered mobbing do not get up and overcome? the attachment, that continuous reliving, repeating, reviewing and retelling over and over again every terrible moment that he lived with the people who hurt him. the attachment to the old, to the past causes this infinite "condemnation" and many times "inert permanence" to a state of agony that will not truly end until we let go and let go of what happened and is now in the past. The fact of doing this life workshop to fight with more power and vehemence against this heartbreaking and life-destroying crime is what will give you the strength to face with the weapons of love and not hate the war for peace, equality and respect for life. and most of all to your life.The one that is undoubtedly worth more than what you yourself think is worth after a mobbing attack in your daily life or work environment.
5- At the level of thought, the greater the distortion of the belief system, the greater the healing provided that the distortion is corrected.
The distortion of ideas of thought or life in "ERROR" is infinitely great. In "The Course in Miracles" three important areas are mentioned: perception, truth, illusion. In the perception phase we let ourselves be carried away and guided by the senses. We only see what we want to see, we hear what it seems to us, we touch what we like and often by ear and we smell the smelly and it seems good to us.
That is why perceptions lead us to make mistakes. And sadly, sometimes very painful. At the level of emotions, it is almost certain that many people who suffer Mobbing have tons of stores of anger, rage, anger and sadness accumulated for infinite time. This destroys their life and leads them to feel a lot of internal unhappiness. The distortion of reality leads them to develop a system of beliefs and attitudes based on the wrong thoughts and in fact they make mistakes after mistakes over and over again until they fall into the abyss of desolation, despair and moral destruction. A person victim of psychological harassment is very prone to falling into distortions of reality. First, because it gives value and credit to its opponents. Second, because he believes he can fight alone @ against everyone.It is him or her against the whole world. Third, because he repeats and repeats long, very long arguments loaded with a lot of pain to all people, who ask him, How are you? Whether they know what is happening or not, they realize that this person suffers and suffers a lot. That is evident. Her smile is a grimace. Her eyes don't shine like they used to, and she may look haggard @ or sick @. This being does not see in his mirror the real figure, which Mobbing has turned his entire life. And the worst is because many times you cannot see it. A physical, mental or spiritual distortion is "UNREAL". It has nothing but bases in life in error. That is why the grandeur of its distortion, if it proposes it, will be the grandeur of its cure. It's like telling you I'm a "monster." A "phenomenon", "A disaster" and you believe it, accept it and approve it.You live giving merit to the error and you do it and turn it into truth. Your truth in error. This does not mean that in learning and internal growth you do not find pain. Of course!!!! It hurts and it hurts a lot. There are people who are never, never and never wrong. Either they make a mistake or a mistake. Especially in matters of judgments or external criticism they say: I am like that ”. "I cannot change." I want them to accept me as I am, period.
No one is going to change me. And they are right. No one could do that job for you. No one could apologize for you. No one could open your heart and take you to analyze your life from when you were born until now. You do that. And therefore the decision is yours. Do not look for the peace you need outside of yourself. And much less put another person in that dilemma. No one will give you Peace. Mobbing will change your life in a thousand and one unimaginable ways. That makes you strong, energetic, fighter, brave and different. It is up to us to sit down and cry and feel sorry for ourselves or do something useful, valuable, courageous and powerful that contributes not only to improving your world. But your life and the entire Universe will thank you as long as there are beings or creatures hopeful to see and make this experience of evil and hate one of enrichment of love.
6- The healing of the individual affects the healing of all humanity; the healing of all humanity as a whole affects the healing of the entire planet.
There are many people who believe in the 21st century that they are individual entities, detached and disjointed from the world. Why don't they accept their uniqueness in matter and energy to a Whole ???? Well, to know… What if, is true is the law that says that matter is neither created nor destroyed… It only transforms. And from there we begin to see how it emerges from my inert, dead body.
A mass called dust or simply ashes, which join the earth, water, air, fire in other thousands and millions of particles. This is Elementary Science !!!! Clear!!!!! But we do not see it that way.. When it comes to my mind, where I store good and bad thoughts according to my scale of values, it ceases to be elemental Science, to be an existential struggle. In that mind, neurologists, mentalitas, etc.. etc.. They say there is life. Is there really? My mind dominates my body, and allows it to act as it wishes and wants, if I allow it, and if I approve it.. If we fill it with positive thoughts such as: I am valuable @, I can, I exist, I love my body, my mind, my inner being etc… etc…… It is almost certain that we will transmit that Force and energy to others. To all living creatures, humans, animals, plants, etc…. But,Why don't we do it ??? Well, one of the reasons is that we don't want to. Another, that we do not allow it, and another that we believe we do not deserve, because that is how we learned it and that is how we transmit it. First to ourselves and then to others. Then, we equate ourselves to those who destroy, kill, corrupt their lives and that of others by imitating what has been poorly learned. Modeling what is badly done and perpetuating it. Without a doubt this is the case.. That is why a person who lives, lived, or will experience “Mobbing, or Psychological Harassment” in the first place must be taught to love herself intensely, to value herself, to respect herself and to.because that's how we learned it and that's how we transmit it. First to ourselves and then to others. Then, we equate ourselves to those who destroy, kill, corrupt their lives and that of others by imitating what has been poorly learned. Modeling what is badly done and perpetuating it. Without a doubt this is the case.. That is why a person who lives, lived, or will experience “Mobbing, or Psychological Harassment” in the first place must be taught to love himself intensely, to value himself, to respect himself and to understand that God or whatever you want to call him, Universe, Creator, Higher Power supports and loves you more than what you can imagine.because that's how we learned it and that's how we transmit it. First to ourselves and then to others. Then, we equate ourselves to those who destroy, kill, corrupt their lives and that of others by imitating what has been poorly learned. Modeling what is badly done and perpetuating it. Without a doubt this is the case.. That is why a person who lives, lived, or will experience “Mobbing, or Psychological Harassment” in the first place must be taught to love himself intensely, to value himself, to respect himself and to understand that God or whatever you want to call him, Universe, Creator, Higher Power supports and loves you more than what you can imagine.or Psychological Harassment ”in the first place you have to teach him to love himself intensely, to value himself, to respect himself and to understand that God or whatever you want to call him, Universe, Creator, Higher Power supports you and loves more than you can imagine @ yourself.or Psychological Harassment ”in the first place you have to teach him to love himself intensely, to value himself, to respect himself and to understand that God or whatever you want to call him, Universe, Creator, Higher Power supports you and loves more than you can imagine @ yourself.
Immensely much !!!!! That is why in the crisis stage with pain, with sadness, with anger, with anger, with rage and with shame you get up !!!!!! and you grow up !!!! you open yourself to the light and to life !!!!! knowing that your perception, your illusion and that of other adversaries, perverse Machiavellian narcissists, or predators only reach “your mind” there. It is not possible to enter into your inner being what you do not allow to enter ”. It's not possible… You give it permission. You give him License to kill. In the wounded, wounded soul, bloodied with blood from the heart, which is where Mobbing in the emotions will play its great role, which you stored in your thought and co-created over and over again until you give them power, is that the true “ Crime of Thought ”. Those expressions of "You do not serve." "You can not"."You are insane" and worse, the narcissist repeats them and tells you, so that you believe them and others as weak as him or her. may be your accomplices. So Norwood (2002) tells us that if an individual, which may be he, she, you, or I is cured of their pain, HEALS contributes without speculation or doubt to the healing of humanity. And if humanity is healed, the planet is healed and therefore the Universe. The same as with matter and energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. Likewise, it happens with the beginning of the Healing or Healing processes. The Detachment to the useless, to the vain, to the negative, to the destructive, to what does not come from my Natural Source, God or Supreme or Superior Being, depends on us. Everything is aSo Norwood (2002) tells us that if an individual, which may be he, she, you, or I is cured of their pain, HEALS contributes without speculation or doubt to the healing of humanity. And if humanity is healed, the planet is healed and therefore the Universe. The same as with matter and energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. Likewise, it happens with the beginning of the Healing or Healing processes. The Detachment to the useless, to the vain, to the negative, to the destructive, to what does not come from my Natural Source, God or Supreme or Superior Being, depends on us. Everything is aSo Norwood (2002) tells us that if an individual, which may be he, she, you, or I is cured of their pain, HEALS contributes without speculation or doubt to the healing of humanity. And if humanity is healed, the planet is healed and therefore the Universe. The same as with matter and energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. Likewise, it happens with the beginning of the Healing or Healing processes. The Detachment to the useless, to the vain, to the negative, to the destructive, to what does not come from my Natural Source, God or Supreme or Superior Being, depends on us. Everything is aThe same as with matter and energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. Likewise, it happens with the beginning of the Healing or Healing processes. The Detachment to the useless, to the vain, to the negative, to the destructive, to what does not come from my Natural Source, God or Supreme or Superior Being, depends on us. Everything is aThe same as with matter and energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. Likewise, it happens with the beginning of the Healing or Healing processes. The Detachment to the useless, to the vain, to the negative, to the destructive, to what does not come from my Natural Source, God or Supreme or Superior Being, depends on us. Everything is a
Everything And Nothing there is nothing else than in your mind or thought in Distortion.
That is why Mobbing or Psychological Harassment scares and gives Fear to those who do not know or
recognize their worth and integrity as creatures created in the image and likeness of a Higher Being. We will only stop suffering when we take off the mud, dirt and manure or garbage, which those who desire our Power will never be able to obtain… »Success awaits you”. open the doors of love and peace will be reborn again "
