When we are connected with the old paradigm, we continue to blame others for the reality that we are living. It is logical to think that everything that happens to us, especially in the negative aspect, has actually been the product of something external, of a person who intervenes in our projects, of a stroke of bad luck, of a bad situation that you have to live, etc. But none of that points to thinking that we ourselves have the absolute responsibility for the results of our life.
It is something that I hear very often from people who tell their problems or talk about the reasons why they have not been able to carry out any project they started:
• "Is that my X person does not support me and truncates my dreams"
• "I was not successful because someone stepped on me"
• "I don't get what I want, because I've always had bad luck"
• "We live in a world where justice does not exist, so I am one more victim of the world"
And many more phrases like the previous ones can be heard in order to justify the reasons why we did not finish a project, we did not find the desired success, and we give up on continuing to fight for what we want to achieve. Everything continues to aim at holding others responsible for what happens to us.
As long as you continue to be determined not to take charge of your results, you will continue to spin in a vicious cycle that gets you nowhere. You need to understand that nothing and no one has the ability to hinder your dreams, annihilate your goals, or intervene in your decisions UNLESS YOU ALLOW IT. Once you authorize the intervention of external agents to take control of your life, you will be lost, you will be a passive Viewer of the movie of your life, while you leave it to other people who decide that you act as a puppet that they direct.
Dare to follow your dreams, dare to be the master of yourself, dare to be responsible for piloting your ship, leading your life in the way that you consider best for yourself.
And remember, NO ONE CAN TRUNCATE YOUR DREAMS, UNLESS YOU GIVE THEM THAT POWER.
A person who takes charge of his results is a person who fully trusts in his potentialities, someone who works with himself feeding his self-esteem and who cares about always being # 1 in his life, he is not a selfish and presumptuous being, for On the contrary, he is a person capable of getting rid of the need for approval and understanding that he has success in his hands and having this knowledge he shares it with all those who want and need to obtain, and in this way he ceases to be a victim.
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