This phrase has been used a lot, but I think I understand that when it is used in various areas of daily life, we do not know for sure what we are talking about?
Lateral thinking is said to a maneuver that, like a driver stuck by car traffic, by the traffic jam, manages to make a lateral route or escape, unconventional and further from the center of congestion.
The congestion center is the central nervous skein of the decision making of our psychomotor calibrator.
This center becomes congested and stops us in the resolution of large or small conflicts, that does not matter much. The key word here is "stops us."
"And we spent hours, days and years without solving, waiting to decongest the conceived route or customary path"
And hope for sure that, at some point in life, this situation will surprise us. Don't hesitate, it's like a cold, at some point you will have an experience with it
The drama unfolds with the following scenario, I leave my house, I take the usual road and at the appointed time, I find myself in traffic jam and congestion.
I wait, wait, and wait, and as it is getting late and the sun is already falling, I return to the point where I left, to repeat the same circuit the next day hoping to find the exit by the mere fact of doing the same and take the same path.
Dramatic right?
To get out of a crossroads, it is often advisable to use lateral thinking.
But where does lateral thinking come from? is the question, When we speak of laterality, we must give it a framework, that framework is the mental scheme or as it is known: the structure of the personality, of the behavior, of the way of being as it is usually said in coaching.
The lateral thinking of the scheme of our way of being.
A way of being is invisible to the possessor of it. It is said is transparent, to all our activities.
Coaching does not do psychoanalysis, we cannot deal with such complex issues as the structure of the personality and its existential debates, it is not possible to retrace paths of emotional intelligence, which have been paved alone, in the course of life.
Since standard emotional intelligence, it is a chemical map that has been etched into people's minds shaping their emotions and affecting their experience and decisions on a daily basis.
These recording are like routes, which have opened themselves in the geography of the human mind, paths through valleys and mountains, jungles and glens of experience.
So the coach suggests now, to leave those roads, and by force of conscience and will, record new side highways, more unclogged, with fluidity for action and self-worth. What are nothing other than the emotional fuel of success and self-esteem each day.
If we do not feel merit in our life, it becomes a desolation returning day after day to follow the same path that does not lead anywhere.
Take heart and let's work to pave your new path to success.
Remember and do not be afraid: awareness, will and action are the keys to a new training for new paths.
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