Are you trying so hard to achieve what you want and nothing? Do you feel like you work hard, but just watch time go by without reaching your goal?
And then you start to wonder what am I doing wrong that I can't? What do others have that they can and I can't? But since there is no answer , you start to think about your plan B, which is to throw everything away and move on to something else.
And just thinking about that option frustrates you, disappoints you because that is not what you wanted for your life.
The big problem you have is precisely that: having a plan by not going to the base of your problems.
Possibly one of your dreams is to have your own business, but since you are not sure of achieving it, you say something like "if this does not come out, I will do this here", that is to work for other people.
Or you want to attract your ideal partner, but since you doubt that you can achieve it, then you settle for the first thing that comes your life.
You create a plan b because you are not sure of achieving what you want because perhaps in your past you have not seen other people achieve it, or because you simply do not trust your abilities. And this should not be so.
If you really want to achieve what you want with all your heart, you should not have a plan b. You must eliminate every second option and your only option should be to reach your goal regardless.
As Napoleon Hill says in his book "Think and get rich": if you want to be successful, burn all your ships, that is, eliminate all possibility of return and your only option is to win.
Unfortunately the vast majority grow up with that defeat mentality because since we were children they made us believe that we could not be what we wanted.
For example, when adults asked us "what would you like to be when you grow up" and you answered "I want to be a big star" or "I want to be a doctor" and they told you "but that is very difficult", "it will take a long time "" better think of something else. "
What they were actually doing was passing their own fears and frustrations to you. And since you were a girl, you believed in everything you were told or heard.
That is why now that you are an adult your mind is full of negative thoughts, memories and beliefs that limit you and that is why every time you think about your dreams you tell yourself things like:
"It is very difficult"
"I'm not going to make it"
"It will take me a long time", "What are people going to think?"
"Etc."
It is your mind that is speaking to you in this way because it has seen negative things, heard and experienced negative things, rather than positive things, and then over time it has got used to this way of thinking in this way.
You have to know that here is the basis of your problems. All these thoughts are the ones that in addition to destroying your self-esteem, destroy your dreams and your happiness.
So what do you need to do?
There are three things you can do now:
1. Change your way of thinking
Since your thoughts become reality and are creating your reality.
Realize what it is that has not let you advance. Analyze your negative beliefs, memories, experiences, habits, and thoughts and replace them with positive ones.
2. Remove negative and toxic people from your life.
Remove from your life all those negative or toxic people who do not believe in you and who only steal your energy.
If they are your family members, just try to spend less time with them and start to surround yourself with more positive people.
3. Eliminate the things you don't use.
Yes. The things that you no longer need, do not use and cling to are taking up space for everything new that is to come.
Eliminate all that from your life and instead start replacing them with the things that the woman you want to be wears.
Think about how he dresses, what he eats, what he does, what habits and what thoughts he has, and start to become that person, only then will you achieve what you want.
Once you get rid of these 3 things, a new future will open up before you and you will begin to attract people, new thoughts and things that will help you achieve what you want…
