One of the most difficult things there is to make personal decisions, but the truth is that this is the case because we are always thinking about being right or rather, about NOT being wrong. Making a decision thinking if it is the "correct" one or not, is what takes away our sleep, because as long as we are afraid of failure, making decisions can become a real nightmare, but to help you make that process more relaxed, I want that you think the following:
What if there was no such thing as a right or wrong decision?
Here I will give you some recommendations that will help you make decisions in a more relaxed way… Are you ready?
- Don't think about it so much! The best decisions are organic. Yes, I know that we have been taught to make decisions with the head and not with the heart, but the truth is that when we use reason, it is when we are furthest from ourselves and from our essence. I'm going to give you a tip: When you see that you are making a list of "Pros and Cons" you are trying to convince yourself of what is best for you, but the real answer is not in a list or in a balance but, in your heart. Listen to your immense inner wisdom, it does know what is good for you. Failure does not exist! therefore there are no right or wrong decisions, they are only decisions, and whether you consider them correct or incorrect will depend on the results you obtain, but even more so on the way you judge those results.Things go the way they have to! and here we return to the previous point where nothing is bad or good, and much less so are the consequences of your decision. Whether I make "bad or good" is simply a judgment, and that is the dangerous thing about it: The judgments we make after making a decision are the ones that torment us! The best way to live is to flow, and for that you have to take a risk and live each episode of your life for what it is: an experience that will make you a better person and help you create a better version of yourself. to regret! Nothing makes us waste more time and energy than to regret what we decide since, regret comes after the "If there were", when the truth is that the "would" DOES NOT EXIST !!!… If it didn't happen, it was because it didn't exist… And if it didn't exist, it wasn't real… And if it wasn't real,What do you think about that for?
As you can see, the issue of making decisions is much simpler than we think. What complicates it is the fear of being wrong… But who asked you to be perfect?
A little extra push - Where's the learning?
Every situation you go through, every decision you make, every moment of your life gives you the opportunity to learn something new, but you must be willing to "stretch", to get out of your comfort zone. Learning is outside where you are!
What you know is what you have, so to have more, you have to risk more, even if that means making a mistake… after all you already know that the only bad thing about an error is that you classify it as such, but if you see it as what it is, an experience, you will have much, much to learn !!!
