Punctuality is probably a recurring theme. For some even superfluous and even idle to analyze. In my opinion, there is a visible collective resignation, in all areas and levels, in admitting "the Peruvian hour" as a cultural and social "characteristic" that we must conform to. It's not like that.
Dear reader, "resignation" is an inherent defect in mediocre and low self-esteem societies. It expresses conformity, submission, apathy and lack of enthusiasm to reverse the negative and pernicious in our subsistence. Do not "resign" yourself to accept and validate irreverent behaviors like the one that motivates this note. It is necessary to revolt the soul of Peruvians and strip ourselves of that shadow of fear, fragility and cover-up that persecutes us and, therefore, accentuates our moral and cultural poverty.
We must agree on the importance of turning punctuality into a way of life that communicates deference towards our neighbor. So, we include in the concept of "respect" the consideration of other people's time. A punctual person inspires credibility and demonstrates skill in their individual organization. Without a doubt, it is a good "cover letter" in your professional image.
Punctuality contributes to provide a personality of character and efficiency. It makes us better in the activities we perform and thus we will gain the trust of the environment. Exhibits your discipline, perseverance, and order to prioritize your actions. It has to do with your will power and sense of responsibility.
Frieda Holler, in her work "That little finger", says: "… It is considered (punctuality) as a firm and safe habit, it is not a product of chance, but of a good management of the time available 24 hours a day. It means knowing how to distribute these wonderful 24 hours in such a way that they can comfortably be used to develop work and all other daily occupations. More than virtue of a single individual or of a whole people, punctuality is a faithful reflection of the degree of civilization and culture that humankind can achieve. ”
Recuerdo una cena en la embajada de un país europeo. Estábamos todos en la mesa y el anfitrión (el embajador) ni siquiera se puso de pie para recibir a un conocido parlamentario con su esposa que llegaron -una hora y media tarde- cuando disfrutábamos el segundo plato. Únicamente, dispuso indicarles sus ubicaciones y serviles la comida que compartíamos. Usted hace algo similar con sus invitados y será calificado de “mal educado” e incluso se resentirán. Es “habitual” que al aparecer un concurrente a última hora le sirva el aperitivo, la entrada, el segundo, etc. hasta “nivelarlo” con los demás comensales. Nada, desde mi parecer, más inadecuado e inelegante.
A while ago I was at a ceremony in the presidency of the Congress of the Republic. We were called to install a parliamentary commission with the participation of more than a dozen ambassadors. The head of the National Parliament was attending to union leaders and it took almost half an hour to start the session. After 20 minutes, the ambassadors present withdrew. When the President appeared - to his surprise - there was no diplomatic representative in the room. What an honorable gesture that of the foreign delegation.
Scottish writer, doctor and teacher, prolific author of self-help publications and articles Samuel Smiles (1812-1904) stated in his famous book "Help yourself" (1859): "Punctuality is courtesy of kings, duty of knights and need of men of business". I repeat these words to my students in the desire - countless times in vain - to make them understand its significance as a value. However, in more than one educational institution there is "tolerance" in the entry at class time, which becomes a subtle protection against the student's tardiness.
When you attend an event - family or business - remember to take your place and do not allow them to make you wait as is the custom of Lima. In marriages the time indicated in the invitation does not coincide with the wedding celebration. Also, it is “normal” in official activities that the main authority is late and no one expresses their discomfort or withdraws. Typical Peruvian submission attitude. That brings to mind an entity (in which I work) that calls fellowship meetings and the host has the "tradition" of coming late and, consequently, does not receive his guests even though the "homeowner" must welcome. In your office, business meetings, appointments, etc. distinguish yourself by your punctuality and you will have the power to demand equal remuneration. Show your self-worth, if you have it.
Accuracy in time must be recovered as a manifestation of respectful and harmonious coexistence and, in addition, it will positively guide human behavior. Let us not lose hope in this task that we are obliged to undertake by educating by example those who are within our reach. Keep in mind the English aphorism: "Punctuality is the soul of courtesy."
(*) Teacher, consultant in event organization, protocol, professional image and social etiquette.
