There are 3 steps that will lead you to failure, always avoid them.
Step 1: Don't try
Imagine that you see an opportunity, a new job, a person that appeals to you or whatever else you have on your mind. If you don't try you will have failed. Taking the explanation to the love field there is a saying that I was told when I was afraid to start a conversation to get something that says: He doesn't already have it ?.
If you do not make the decision to do what you want, you will have failed.
You will meet people who are very intelligent, studious but who do not succeed. Having knowledge is not enough, the first step is action. Try to get what you want.
Step 1 of failure is where 90% of people fall, they just don't try; however these failures are usually silent, the person simply did not start to fight. This occurs due to the lack of precise goals in life and low motivation.
Step 2: Paralysis
If you pass the first step, you should pay close attention to the following. Imagine that you are presented with an opportunity and after thinking about it you decide to take this opportunity, that is, you take the opportunity. Once inside you must start working to get the results, right? There are people who begin to imagine through their heads all the problems that could arise, how difficult it would be to do the work and finally they get paralyzed and do not start working. Fear paralyzed them. This is the second step of failure; paralysis.
Step 2, originates from the concern that ends up generating fear of failure to rejection, low self-esteem to such an extent that they become paralyzed.
These people end up paralyzed by the fear it generates, thinking all the time about problems that prevent them from taking action.
Step 3: abandonment
Here the person already entered the business that was offered to him and began to work. (I pass steps 1 and 2). As the days go by, he encounters small problems, for example he receives a bad response from a person, when he faces this problem he becomes depressed and begins to think that this is not for me, it is very difficult, I don't know how to do it, etc.
This finally what produces in the person is that he becomes depressed and ends up leaving work. This is the third step of failure.
In more than one opportunity when success was already around the corner for taking this position of Abandonment, we lost the opportunity and finally failed.
Sometimes the circumstances do not happen in the perfect way that a person had planned, when comparing his perfect image with the circumstance; they get depressed, angry and end up leaving.
These steps are common to happen to a good number of people, our mind tends to work in this way putting a shield so that we think that what does not work is the activity that we carry out and we abandon it, leaving us calm when we try it.
These steps apply in any area of our lives, try to avoid them always.
