"That boy is clumsy," were the words of a woman when she expressed herself about her son, who was only three years old, when he did not understand what she was saying when she wanted the boy to identify the colors of a flag. This expression was supported by the comparative that she had made minutes before when her neighbor's son, who was younger than her son was two years old and not only knew the colors, she also knew how to count to 20 and identified some letters of the alphabet.
Such was the discontent of that mother that I could hear him "it seems that he was not my son." I imagine that the boy did not understand what his mother was saying to him but from the face that she put on him when launching these expressions he would simply understand that his mother was displeased and that it was precisely with him; for his reaction was to cry immediately.
What would it have been if this child understood that his mother, the person who protected him for 9 months at that time, was dissatisfied with the not so flattering results she was receiving with his growth, who according to her was less than some.
These are situations that we tend to see very frequently and more at the levels where culture and education have been very divided and received in very small doses and of poor quality. However, every parent wants their child to always stand out and say proudly: "This is my son", of course, in the most educated classes they hide it but some parents feel it the same even though they do not express it.
These are from my perspective the true experiments that demonstrate the behavior and conduct of human beings. Well, this is where the capacity for analysis and intelligence is determined for certain circumstances specific to certain behaviors and situations that present themselves in life.
The brain is the main topic of this article, since it is the generating axis in the human body; And when I refer to a generator, I would not want to go into identifying everything that is produced by it; since it controls and regulates any tangible and intangible mechanism in man; Well, program from a simple movement to your thoughts.
That is why I started this writing referring to situations as simple as the relationship of a mother with her child when feeling less favored with its results.
Let's not forget that everything has a process and you have to give it its respective time. Many times we parents are busy because our children finish their studies in a hurry and are multifaceted, because in addition to studying every day they also have their swimming class on Monday afternoons, taekwondo on Tuesdays, gymnastics on Wednesdays, Thursdays of painting and on Friday you could not miss the piano course; in addition to every night the two hours of languages with his private language teacher and on weekends the religious visit to the granny's house.
What is happening? We are bringing children into the world so that they develop normally or we are creating mechanized human beings. This is a subject that shows us that our society demands that knowledge, and therefore its dynamic and active motor, the brain shows certain capacities of resistance and coverage that we will never be able to measure.
This same training strategy put in place 20 years ago could easily qualify parents as oppressors and destroyers of a child's normal development. But finally what matters most is being able to tell the friends of the game of tennis or golf in the Club that my son, so young that this is already a worthy example of society. But when we see that with the future in some cases the results are not what we expected, because a person who never had a childhood developed, someone who needed to play more with his friends, bring dirty clothes from school, a product of disorders that were done at recess, that restless person who gave us a headache because of the complaints of some neighborhood residents for taking the fruits of their trees, etc.
We clearly realize that we wanted to make a machine, we wanted to exploit a being using any number of additions to make it what we wanted; not really what he wanted.
These are the true moments of saturation to the brain, since it is not acted by their own will, but by conditioning of people who claim to have dominion over others for the simple fact of calling themselves parents. This, as I emphasize once again, is a life experiment; since it shows us the true reasons that lead a person to be the product of a previously designed formula.
It is then where we say that intelligent, that capable, but basically if he will be a happy person, having spent the best part of his life between courses and teachers, times and accomplishments, tests and practices. Therefore, it is better that the orientation is guided but not imposed, the decisions of what you want to achieve in life are supported but not forced.
This is one of the most important moments because the success of people depends to a large extent on that freedom in personal growth. I mean by this that not because I am the best student in the class I will be the best in life, there are many circumstances that, defined as they may seem, can surprise us over time.
With companies something very similar happens to what I detail in this article, because the saturation of information, technology, the demands of the environment, competition for markets, continued use of cell phones, the 100 emails received daily by those who are We have to answer them immediately, and many other activities make our brain saturate and manifest diseases such as the one that has many people in the world in check which corresponds to stress.
But what to do in this situation? If I don't do it I lose my job and another if it does it for me and suddenly better. These are the moments in which we see that a multinational company incoherently makes evaluations of the organizational climate to determine the degree of employee satisfaction, but at the same time it requires the customer service operator that according to studies and performance analysis must attend to 300 calls in an ordinary 8-hour workday. How absurd? Perhaps they are more interested in the person as a generating instrument than as a person.
This is the moment that vitamin marketing companies take advantage of and launch their brain strengthening and nutritional enrichment products where in their propaganda the executive is not lacking in sports and linked to an extensive work day. Could this be the solution? And we keep asking questions, such as: Why are suicides on the rise in the world? What happens that every day there are more cases of cancer? Where is the reason that psychologists and psychiatrists have more patients every day? Why is the number of people visiting nursing homes increasing?
All this points to the fact that people in today's society think more about what the environment demands of them and that is why individuals prefer what they can achieve in the environment than what their interior part can generate for them.
It is important to highlight that experimenting with knowledge from the point of view of freedom of decision and the focus of desire is important and necessary, therefore we do what we want always pursuing defined objectives and proposed goals. Let's keep our minds open to the world and in this way the results will be given to us. I like to point out in this topic, since many times people do things out of competence and not out of a real need to learn and excel.
If this happens, that is, acting out of obligation, we will not be taking advantage of the true brain potential, rather we will be using it only to depress it; This is an experiment that we will all one day realize its results. Well, only time is the one that will show us the results that are given to us when experimenting with knowledge.
