People define "their job" because they pay you a salary and offer you benefits, bonuses, paid vacations. Others refer to their work because they drive a company car, they give it a house. But in reality, do you think that these material things are what determine the real value of a person? Or should the worth of a human being be determined by his actions and thoughts?
You have natural talents and abilities that are inherent to you, such as, for example, you have the facility to get along with people, you are able to understand things using logic, you have the ability to focus and stay focused, organize yourself, etc. Then you have the other skills that are apprehended or acquired through learning, such as through your education, society, by reading and listening to material that deals with the subject, attending seminars or training with someone in particular.
But these talents or abilities do not determine your true "worth."
The truth in this matter is that you determine your true worth. You do it when you determine what things are really worthwhile in your life. It is through your actions or omissions, and also when you do not make a decision that is itself a decision, you are determining your worth through your inaction. Advancing on your dreams and desires also determines your real worth. All this depends exclusively on you.
You can read many books on this subject, listen to many recordings, attend seminars or conferences, but in reality, without a plan, without taking action, you cannot establish that these parameters can determine your true worth as a person.
You need to dream again. Do you remember what your dreams were when you were a child? Dreaming is fantastic, adults must remember that it is essential to dream, dreams are necessary for them to be perfected as evolutionary beings. Then you must visualize those dreams, giving them a present time as if they lived in the present.
Use visualization to create your goals in all areas of your life, not just to have material possessions. When you focus on your goals, you must include at least six major areas of your life, in which you need to make some kind of decision. Write an action plan that starts the activities that will allow you to reach your goals.
Keep track of the activities that you need to work on in a diary or in a journal, so that you record each of the feelings and ideas that come to your mind that day. Scheduling these aspects daily will allow you to see your action plan, reviewing them offers you the opportunity to know how to start, grow and become what your vision tells you you should be.
When you use these tools, is there anything that could stop you from reaching your true value? Do you have a conversation with yourself? Can you imagine how it would be to meet again with your most sincere feelings? Changing your own thoughts requires some help, such as using affirmation phrases. Reading the affirmation phrases every day will help you change your mind and the patterns of your thoughts.
If you feel that you lack the ability to forgive someone, you feel anger, resentment or bitterness against a person or for having gone through a difficult situation, you are creating an artery that is blocking your future and your true worth.
Make a list with the person or people with whom you feel you have the need to forgive, but it is not necessary that you face them face to face to do it, just create that feeling of forgiveness, make the list, record it, then destroy it or Throw it away and forget all the pain, and move on with your life.
Achieving your true worth within yourself is an incredible journey, because you will see yourself move from the place where you put yourself to the place where your vision takes you. This trip can last a day, a week or a month, it all depends on each person. But it takes time and a real commitment to get started and continue this adventure.
You will realize that as time goes by, this adventure is worth much more than you imagined because your goals, your vision about yourself and the affirmations you make daily, cause a change within your mind. You will also observe that your journal helps you to have a record of this trip, obtaining small or great results within the transformation of your beliefs.
To achieve your true value, you need to establish a plan or system that helps you in the beginning, with good planning, organization and monitoring of this emotional adventure. Once you start it, you just have to focus on your desires and take action to start moving forward. Leave hesitation or indecision behind, take action to move on with your life and you can enjoy a future where you are determined by your real value as a person.
