We have all read something about people who are briefly successful. They can win a gold medal, make a fortune, or be a movie star for a very short period… and then they disappear. But we must focus on people who, in different areas of life, achieve permanent success and that if one observes what their behaviors are, they can learn some tricks to apply them to daily life.
These individuals have common traits and these are the following:
1- They work very hard daily. They get up very early, they rarely complain about having to. They expect others to do their homework in the same way that they give of themselves. This type of success is based on the recognition that hard work always pays off.
2- They are very curious people and they want to learn. They study what they are developing, ask questions and read constantly to be informed. One point to keep in mind is that most of them had very good grades at university, but the difference is that they apply their knowledge or take advantage of what they have learned. Success to sustain it over time is not about memorizing the data, but about being able to analyze the information and then create, construct or apply it in an innovative way. Successful people want to learn about everything around them all the time.
3- They know how to establish good relationships with people. They know that there are different kinds of people and that not all of them can be treated in the same way, they adapt to the different positions of other people's behavior. They know how to listen to their friends, neighbors, coworkers and even the waiters. They don't need to be the "centerpiece of the party," they are people who take a quiet stance and may even be shy, but people value their company. Successful people have great value for friendship and generate good human relationships.
4- They work on themselves not to become arrogant people. The success of these people is based on their personality, their leadership skills, their management skills and with each of the details of their daily life. When something goes wrong in a work or business relationship, they assume they can learn from that situation and hope to do better next time. Successful people do not tolerate defects, they take an attitude of always looking for a solution.
5- They are people who have an extraordinary creative capacity. The posture is Why not? They always see new possibilities for growth, new opportunities, and challenges they don't see as a problem or a limitation. They get up at midnight screaming, I already have the solution! They ask for advice when something bothers them, try new things, consult with experts or specialists in the field in which they are developing. They always look for a better and quick solution. Successful people create things all the time.
6- They are self-sufficient and assume responsibility for their actions. Successful people, incredibly do not worry about guilt, do not waste time complaining about what they have to live at the time. They make quick decisions and move on. Sometimes they are criticized for making extreme decisions, but to be successful, there are times when you need to take the initiative and accept the responsibility that this entails.
7- Generally, these people are seen with a relaxed posture and maintain their perspective. When they are going through a situation of stress or emotional crisis, they try to maintain their energy balance, valuing the opportunities that are presented to them. They have good humor and patience. They rarely panic or make impulsive decisions. They ask the right questions at the right time. They know how to make decisions even in critical situations.
8- These people know how to live in the present. For them only the "now" counts, it is the only position they have in their minds. They look each other in the eye, listen to what they are saying, enjoy a meal with friends or colleagues, know how to appreciate good music or they can also play with children. They are never in a rush, they make the most of each day of their lives. Successful people don't waste time. They use it to their advantage.
9- They have an attitude of "looking over the horizon" to appreciate the future. They observe current trends so that changes do not take them by surprise and listen to the different positions of other people's thought. They live in the present with their eyes on the future.
10- In the different situations that present themselves, they know how to react instantly. When an investment does not pay off, they know how to sell on time. If they see a good opportunity, they take advantage of it. If an important relationship is cooling, they take time to renew it. When technology, a new competitor or there is a difficult economic situation, they make the necessary adjustments so that everything returns to its normal course.
When all these traits of successful people are combined, a great advantage is gained over other individuals. To be successful you have to change certain habits, such as becoming an insatiable student and responding wisely to changes that occur at work or in life. You should establish personal relationships with strong ties and seek advice when the situation warrants it. These traits are general, you must always learn to excel as a person, controlling emotions and exercising leadership within the field where you work.
