What you believe about yourself either weakens you or makes you stronger. What do you prefer to believe?
Success, living happy, feeling fulfilled,….. The path to the Ideal Life is not a matter of achieving goals and objectives exclusively, rather it will be the result of your «mentality».
Yes, it is absolutely true that with a mentality of failure you cannot succeed.
With a mentality of poverty one does not prosper, with a mentality of scarcity one does not achieve abundance, with a mentality of hate one does not live love, with a mentality of guilt one does not live in freedom, with a mentality of rancor one does not enjoy life…
To be successful is to enjoy the life we live. Feeling happy doing what we do, thinking what we think and being the way we are.
So…. What mentality do you need to have to improve your life?
Here are ten keys, ten ways to interpret the circumstances that will help you have a Winning Mind.
1. They are not problems, they are challenges and opportunities.
The circumstances that you interpret as problems really are not. You can change problems if you look at them as opportunities to grow, to improve your skills, to learn. Face them with the desire to overcome them, with the desire to be bigger than them, to get something positive from something negative. Once you have learned how to overcome a challenge, the next time you will not worry. That's for sure.
2. Be proud of what you do.
Proud and passionate. Proud and sincere, effective, creates value for others. The more value you give to others, the better your results will be. Remember that we are not paid by the hour, but we could be watching television or playing with the phone and charging, but most likely, if this happens we will be fired, right? So create value and deliver value to others. Be proud of the value you deliver.
3. Anticipating is not the same as being scared.
We cannot control everything that will happen in our life, in our business, in our work, but we can anticipate many circumstances. Practice proactivity instead of reactivity. A reactive person has much less room for maneuver than a person who has known how to anticipate circumstances. Plan and get ready. That way you won't have to be paralyzed when some adverse circumstance arises.
4. Feel comfortable in discomfort.
Getting out of your comfort zone can be uncomfortable, it can cause fear, anxiety, and that's exactly where the opportunities are. Remember that if you keep doing what you are doing now, you will keep getting what you have achieved so far. Only when taking on new challenges, when leaving our comfort zone is where we find the real opportunities, what is really worth doing to make a difference in your life.
5. Define what is success for you.
Do not follow the definition of others. Do not look for what you think is success according to what you see around you, or on TV. Sit back and ask yourself: What does success mean to me? How do I want to live to feel successful, satisfied with my own life?
6. The opinions of others are theirs, not your reality.
Everyone thinks. Everyone knows what you should do to improve your life, they even know what you are not capable of achieving…. But is this true? Of course not. Do not let the opinions of others become your reality. If you want something, fight for it. If you dream of something, take the road. No one can tell you what you will not be able to do. Show yourself that you can, making your dreams come true. Don't let toxic people contaminate you.
7. The minutes, the material of which your life is made.
Don't lose them. Do not waste your life watching television, playing on the internet, with endless searches on google or. Your life is your time. Your time is sacred, like your life. Being punctual is showing respect for others, it is respecting their time.
8. Action !!!
Take action now. Get into action right now. Start getting results. For this it is necessary to take action. Stop reading about personal growth, start YOUR personal growth. Sign up for an online course, plan the next steps in your business or venture, make decisions. Positive results are the result of concrete, positive actions.
9. There is no Failure.
Those who experience their personal success have gone through stages where they have made mistakes, but that has not stopped them. They have made decisions that did not give positive results, but they have returned to undertake other actions that, if they have brought them closer to their goals, have remained in action until achieving it. It only fails when it is abandoned. The only failure you can reap in your life is to give up, to stop taking the actions that will make you lead the life you want to lead.
10. Your life, your decisions.
The decisions you made in the past are the ones that have put you where you are now. If you want to be somewhere else, live a different life, achieve better and more results, you will also achieve it by making decisions and taking action. No one's fault. It is your responsibility. Even not making decisions, not making changes, remaining idle when circumstances change, is also a decision that shaped your present and will determine your future.
