Imagine a large factory capable of producing everything it proposes, with a staff that works efficiently and modern machinery of excellent quality. A well-organized factory, which in addition to being the pride of the company, has no legal or quality control problems because everything works well there.
But one good day the staff starts arriving at a different time and the workday is different for each employee, each one doing what he thinks he should do, without taking into account the others. The machines work relentlessly and are not regularly maintained, so they start to break down. The product that the factory produces begins to present deficiencies in its quality and the delivery time is increasingly delayed, causing problems for the entire company.
Now, imagine that this factory is you, the workers are your emotional state, the machines your physical state and the company, your family.
Just like a factory, people need order to perform efficiently. The combination between workers and machinery is essential, as is the harmony between the emotional and physical state.
All of the above can have an important influence, whether positive or negative, on the rest of the family with whom they live daily. Seeking to establish an order in life contributes significantly to the fact that no external influence destabilizes the person physically or emotionally.
It is impossible to think of a good organization without the help of an agenda or organizer, because not even the most prodigious memory has the capacity to remember so efficiently an appointment, hours, commitments or phones.
The agenda is an essential tool to organize, so it will be necessary to remember the following:
Write everything down.
Daily activities, pending or appointments, with their respective schedules. This helps to organize the activities so that you use the time in a better way.
It is important to write down the activities and pending in order of importance, and try to resolve them in the shortest possible time, otherwise, there is a risk that the list of pending activities will increase, making compliance more complicated.
How many times out of pity to say “I can't”, do you accept an invitation, knowing that you don't have time or have other more important things to do? That is why people who seek to have an order in their lives must learn to use the word no, which, far from indicating lack of tact, defines in a better way who you are, what you like and what you don't; but above all, it shows sincerity.
Reserve Time For You.
How would a worker perform in a company where he had no free time, rest days or vacations? Undoubtedly not as efficiently as the one who does have time to enjoy his family and himself.
If there is a pause in the fast pace of life and some activity is carried out that relaxes, amuses, entertains and allows the growth of the person (some sport, dancing, painting, writing, reading, studying), relationships with others and own performance will be favored.
Having dreams, goals and a real commitment to oneself, positively reaffirms self-esteem, which in turn is a good example for children.
Focus on Something Special, Do One Thing at a Time.
If you want to help your children with their homework and at the same time talk on the phone, it is likely that you neglect one of the two things.
Instead, focusing on one activity at a time allows you to focus better on what you do, do it faster and better.
Rest, Respect the Hours of Sleep and Rest.
Just as it is necessary to eat healthy and exercise regularly, daily rest is also essential to maintain a good state of health.
Mood, energy, mental clarity, and performance are largely determined by the amount of rest you get from sleeping, so hours of rest should have a special place on the agenda.
Involve the Family, Include the Children in the Different Chores of the Home.
In addition to the help they provide, they will be supported in the formation of good habits, which in turn will help them to organize themselves in a better way in the future.
Start Today.
It is common to hear the phrase: "Starting Monday, I start…", although in reality it takes much more than a date to start, it takes real intention and self-discipline to carry out the purpose.
The persistent and tenacious person who manages to initiate a change in the way they organize themselves will see the results of their effort in an improvement in their quality of life, in their relationships with others, but above all, they will have the personal satisfaction of achieving all their goals. goals and owning your time and yourself.
Always Remember: Never Give Up !!
Until next time…
