Not all relationships have the same weight in our lives. Some relationships are circumstantial (with schoolmates or colleagues at work), others are necessary (with the in-laws or the parents of your children's friends); However, there is a type of relationship that becomes fundamental: one that occurs with people who "nurture" us and make us better in their company. Having deep and meaningful relationships becomes more difficult over the years and when those loved ones leave our lives they cause us great pain; therefore it is good to know some basics that govern most human relationships and that can help us build meaningful, full, enriching and lasting relationships.
Here is a guide to some of the essentials required for healthy relationships:
- Acting up to it: It goes far beyond how we feel about people (some days we like people more than others); it has to do with being upright and honoring the presence of others by giving them their place. Being up to it means being respectful, attentive, and correct in every interaction - regardless of the state of mind we have. Attitude of service and contribution: How Zig Ziglar said “You can have everything you want in life, always and when you help others enough to get what they want in life. " Bringing value into the lives of others will always add to your levels of satisfaction. Honest Communication: Openness and sincerity connect you in a deep and genuine way with those around you. Express what you feel, say what you think and listen without judging the other,It will always strengthen the ties in a relationship, either to build it at the beginning or to strengthen it over the years. Be kind: If people find in you a smile, positivity and friendly words, you can be sure that people always will gravitate around you. No one likes grumpy people and generally "what you give back to you" so pay more attention to how you make the people around you feel. Patience: We are all human and we will all fail sometime. Cultivating patience, empathy, and acceptance will help you stay connected with others and tolerate the "bad streaks" that occur in relationships. Loyalty: It is the willingness and commitment to give your best in your relationships and It is also the courage to ask for what you need to make the relationship work well.Working conflicts loyally and directly is difficult, especially when you are angry or upset; This is why most choose to abandon relationships when they have a difficulty. Having a common purpose: This is a vital element for growth relationships. Try to find people with dreams and aspirations, who share your interests and your stage of life, with whom you can grow and build, and it will be one of the most enriching experiences of your life. Knowing how to have fun: Even in business relationships you need the fun factor that helps us to let our guard down, makes us enjoy the presence of the other, gives us the freedom to be ourselves and makes everything flow naturally. Both interesting conversations,How shared laughter and moments of authenticity help us create memories that last forever.
Source:
- 8 Traits of Healthy Relationships –Jim Rohn - Success Magazine.
