Many people equate LOVE with HAPPINESS. I honestly believe that when you are in love (LOVE), you are happy (HAPPINESS), because if you do not find happiness when you are in love, then the value of LOVE seems to me to be nil.
When we have a hard time maintaining a relationship, we start looking for justifications in everything we do. Perhaps the pain diminishes the love that we feel at the beginning of the relationship a little, and then the anger ends by eliminating it completely. All the times we look for reasons behind our actions that justify our love, the more frustrated we can be, because we find nothing LOGICAL. Until we came to the conclusion that in reality "we were never in love", so we consoled ourselves by saying: "if I felt affection", "if he wanted to", "if there was a feeling between us". And after these words, then we feel something we do not understand: IRA. So at the beginning I share: LOVE is not logical, there are no logical reasons to be in love, only your heart knows why you are.
It is inevitable that people have clashes. In a romantic relationship, you cannot escape having contact with the person you are interacting with, that is a very nice thing in interpersonal relationships: CONTACT and this may or may not please us. The more people we have contact with, it is very possible that our confrontations are greater, and then our LOVE for these people may be diminishing if we look for LOGICAL reasons.
I cannot say that in relationships, LOVE and HAPPINESS are always the same between us and the people we love; What I CAN say is that if there is LOVE then there is HAPPINESS, and when there is LOVE and HAPPINESS they make you stronger than the sum of those problems that surround you.
One person once said "a good start is never good until it breaks through." Don't settle for an initial state of love and happiness. Think about it, when you want to break a relationship, think that you are losing too much and you are going to lose much more.
Be optimistic, it is all in the positive mind that you are going to keep for the entire duration of your relationship. Not everything is going to turn out the way we want it to. Actually, there will be so many things that will never have a happy ending. The difference happens when we start to take stock of our relationships and realize how dangerous it is to not reach the end because we stop believing in ourselves and feel insecure.
If you can't say anything nice and you know that your words will be the reason that happiness and love are separating, better let silence help you. Learn to communicate without saying a word.
Relationships are destroyed due to lack of happiness and laughter. It is good to be crazy and perhaps at times act in a "silly" way (remember that as a poet and crazy, we all have a little), this will help you feel HAPPY and will make love grow.
The art of happiness is a skill that you must apply every day. Do not say that it IS IMPOSSIBLE, be yourself, love yourself, and recognize in everything you see happiness instead of hiding from the moments that give you that happiness.
There are certainly a lot of things you want to accomplish in your life. It can be fame, power, money, a sensual partner, a stable professional career and good health, among many other things. After all, who doesn't want to be happy?
You have your personal wishes. You just say: I want to be happy! But what does it take to make you happy? What do you need to achieve happiness? Are you willing to do what is necessary with your life so that you can be happy ? Do you think that everything material will give you happiness?
The answers to these questions are only yours, and I invite you to share them with me.
Final Thoughts: After reading YOUR TOOL above, please ask yourself: How does this TOOL help me…
• to be happier?
• to be healthier?
• to be more prosperous?
• to have spiritual peace?
• to have more security in myself?
• to improve my relationships with others?
