Where does your definition of yourself come from?
What things do you consider possible and what are impossible for you? Your definition of the possible is closely tied to your concept of yourself. If there are things in your life that you want to achieve but you think are not possible, it may be time to review what concept of yourself is preventing you and change it. How to expand your definition of yourself to achieve what you want? I show you in the next article.
"The challenge is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you be someone else." Reneé Locks.
Key 1. Changing the restrictive labels: It is important to broaden the concept of who we are and what we can do. For this reason, the labels with which we define ourselves must enhance what we carry inside; instead of restricting ourselves and setting limits on what we want to achieve.
The words "I am" have great force and usually become a self-fulfilling prophecy of what comes next, be careful what aspect of yourself you tie these words to. When you say "I am" choose carefully what words you put next and identify how they make you feel.
Frequently, we do not notice how we talk about ourselves with ourselves. For example, some people may say: I am incapable, and it does not have to be true. What happens is that this person has not learned to differentiate the capacity of possibility; You may not yet know how to do something, but that does not mean you are not able to do it.
When you convince yourself that you are not capable of something, reflect again and analyze if you really are not capable or if you do not want to commit to learning how to be from a new vision of yourself.
What new ways to see yourself break your personal limits?
Key 2. What is inside is like outside: Have you ever wondered why when people change, their lives also change? Each personal definition brings together skills, behaviors and aspirations, by redesigning the way we see ourselves, our life also reflects that change, because it impacts our behaviors and aspirations, as well as enhances our capabilities.
Many opportunities that we previously overlooked, because we did not consider ourselves capable of taking advantage of them, are more frequently shown before our eyes today, because we have given ourselves permission, from our new identity, to consider ourselves capable and sufficient.
It is time for you to make that change that allows you to see the strong and capable person inside you, remember that any difficulty you see in the outside world was born inside you first, due to your definition of ability associated with your way to see you.
When you start feeling capable, you end up believing it and then you act accordingly.
There is a powerful force that determines the course of your life: They are your decisions, and those decisions are made from an outline. That schema or perspective is how you interpret your life experiences. By deliberately modifying your definition of yourself, your outline expands and you make better decisions.
How do you choose today to expand your vision of yourself?
How do you choose today to broaden the vision of your life?
For your success.
