If you like to be better every year, surely you are already thinking about the things you want to achieve and your future purposes. Unfortunately, most people never achieve their purposes because they don't know how to set powerful goals that are accomplished. After more than a decade of immersing myself in programs, processes, books and exercises to achieve my goals, I have come to very interesting conclusions that I will share with you in this article:
Mistake # 1 Burning your brain looking for the "hows"
One of the mistakes people make is that they focus on the difficulty of the task and focus on that energy of difficulty.
When you focus on all the obstacles to overcome to achieve something - using your logical mind that is low vibrating - you are offering longing-like vibrations and you are holding yourself in the longing sense.
Tip # 1: Focus on what you want and why you want it instead of the hows and the difficulty of the task.
Mistake # 2 Apathy vs. emotion
Another mistake people make is that they set weak goals, think of them apathetically or with little decision.
The reality is that the potential in everything is extraordinary and we only have to decide with all our hearts to achieve great things. Every point of consciousness no matter how small has great potential, even viruses and bacteria that are invisible to our eyes can kill millions of people in no time.
Tip # 2: Take into account that you have not reached even 1% of your potential in this life yet and that if a virus can do great things, you could achieve the unimaginable. Open yourself to think about great things and get excited about achieving your dreams, feel enthusiasm and passion instead of helplessness, hopelessness or apathy since with those emotions / energies you will not achieve your goals.
Mistake # 3 Believing that you are separated from your desire
The Abraham-Hicks Deliberate Creation formula is:
Step 1. You ask
Step 2. The universe answers, without exception.
Step 3. You receive.
This means that if you ask for something (step 1), the universe answers without exception. And now you must move to step 3, the energy of receiving.
It is a simple and easy formula but we often get stuck in step # 3 Receive, because we do not know how to practice the energy of receiving.
Tip # 3: Implant in your conscience the firm belief that you can achieve everything and that there are no impossibilities because the Universe gives you everything you ask for (step 2 of the formula).
Mistake # 4 Moving Forward Motivating Yourself Without Cutting Root Negative Beliefs
I call this error garrafal because it is where we waste our life the most.
Let us remember that all our beliefs are creations and starting from this point we could say that everything you believe regarding your desire is a creation that you set in motion and that will materialize without any doubt.
For example: If you want a salary increase but you have many beliefs that salary increases are rare in your company, or that the economy will be worse next year, or that you will not be able to receive a salary increase because you do not know how So that's exactly what you're going to get with no raise.
Because you have beliefs that support that reality, that is, you are creating it even if you don't like it.
Tip # 4: discover those creations / beliefs and rethink them to stop continuing to create them because they will continue - if you leave them - blocking the achievement of your goals.
Mistake # 5 Fighting to fulfill your wish but from the energy of longing
Longing and desire are 2 totally different things. The energy of longing is related to wanting something but at the same time being aware of not having it.
There is nothing in our lives that has such a sabotaging effect as longing is because it is a deception for us since, wanting something but at the same time focusing on how it feels not to have it is a total guarantee that you will continue to long for it.
On the contrary, the energy of desire is different, it is wanting something with a feeling of happiness, of knowing that it is already ours and that it is safe, of feeling peaceful, happy and in total security.
This quote fascinates me because it explains it fabulously:
“When they want, many people have a sense of longing because while they focus on something they want to experience or have, at the same time they are aware of its absence. And so while they are using words of desire, they are simultaneously offering a vibration of lack. They come to think that the feeling of desire is that of wanting something and not having it but no, that is the feeling of longing. There would be no feeling of want or yearning in pure desire if they had in mind that whenever something is asked for, it is always granted » Abraham-Hicks.
Tip # 5: Get the craving out of the way before setting any goal for yourself. Do not advance with a sense of "not having" or act from that feeling because your results will be null or mediocre. Think about the important things you have accomplished in the past and you will realize that you were always sure that they would happen.
Mistake # 6 Not launching your wishes energetically
Neale Donald Walsch, author of the book Conversations with God tells us that when a desire is formulated, the counterpart of that desire automatically appears, and that counterpart appears to heal it.
It is the counterpart of the energy that you are beginning to ask the universe that at that moment appears so that you love it, not so that you remain tied to it.
Imagine a battery - a Duracell battery - that has positive energy on one side and negative energy on the other. This is how ambivalent each area of our life, (money, relationships, health) absolutely everything in life has two opposite poles, the positive pole that is equal to the satisfaction of what we want and the negative pole that is equal to the lack of what we want.
Tip # 6: Launch your desires energetically spending a day thinking about what you want from different angles so that you strengthen the energy of your goal, your decision becomes clearer and your intention firmer.
This is infallible, I have used it with great success to publish my books, heal from diseases, double my income, have more free time, attract ideas, launch my business and attract EVERYTHING necessary to achieve my goals every year, in fact it is the step that I always use before acting.
If you really want to achieve your goals, you have to commit yourself and take time to prepare yourself mentally because only then will you make them a reality.
Toasting at 12 at night on December 31 or making wishes while eating grapes during the 12 chimes will not give you results because it is you who is creating your reality all the time and although those New Year rituals thrill you for a few moments, do not They have the power to change what you believe and how you feel about what you want to achieve.
