If your present is influenced by old wounds, you can hardly be the leader of your life. Equally complicated it will be for you to prosper because quite possibly your self-esteem is suffering.
In these circumstances you see your life from the role of victim, and a victim is never the leader of anything. You become a reactive person; Either you indulge or you insist on upsetting everyone else, whether they are family members, coworkers, or friends.
You continually seek approval. You don't have your own address, you drift.
You want changes in your life that allow you to feel good about yourself, but if you do not have inner stability, emotional stability you will walk in circles going through the same point over and over again, so reaching the goal will become a nightmare.
To achieve your full potential it is necessary that you know yourself well and know where your present experiences really come from.
- Where does this present come from? What are the thoughts, the emotions that these unpleasant experiences bring me not to leave? What decisions did I make that brought me here? What opinion do I have about myself? Why do I think of myself like this?
To shine your BEING requires that you face the inner tangles that martyr and bind you. It is necessary that you let go of the habit of feeling bad, it is time to KNOW, intervene, be responsible for yourself so that later you can trust and give yourself up to resignation.
Resignation is nothing more than doing your part and trusting that you are always safe. When you experience this in your LIFE, you will have made a great leap in your inner growth, in your spiritual development, which is basic for absolutely everything in your life, whether you are a top manager, a store clerk or a mother and housewife.
As I always say, everything starts inside you and to walk lightly through life and reach your goals more quickly, your interior has to be clean, bright and strong.
Such an interior makes your self-esteem balanced and know how to BE yourself in any circumstance.
Healing your past is an essential requirement to strengthen and change your present in order to be able to move towards your goals with ease and security.
For example: if you do not have a partner and you would like to find your ideal partner but you do not trust men or women because in the past they hurt you more than once on the sentimental issue, if you do not heal those feelings and forgive you will continue trapped in that spider web and no one will be good enough for you or in any case you will continue to attract people who will hurt you again.
As you surely want a prosperous life and feel happy, start by reconciling yourself with your past and letting it go. Observe, forgive, learn and liberate!
In this article I leave you a few steps so that you can get started NOW, without wasting time because the sooner you start, the sooner you will grow.
- Think of a problem that is tormenting you in this present; a loving disappointment with someone, a labor conflict, a grudge towards someone… Go back and remember other times when you have felt like now, look for your oldest memory Now visualize that distant memory and start to forgive, forgive yourself and forgive all related person, then let go and feel liberated. Feel grateful for the opportunity to heal and liberate yourself. Thank you for all the good that you now have in your life. Make a thank-you list.
With an orderly mind, a calm heart, a balanced self-esteem and healthy emotions, you can touch the sky!
