Most of the New Year's resolutions are taken from a clear perspective of what is not wanted or what has not gone well (the year that ends), to propose a New Year's resolution (in the effective way) is You need to take time to align your energy with that new decision.
Many people make their New Year's resolutions and in most cases for the first or second day they have already returned to their old habits and are now disappointed.
What happens to many of you is that when you think about your New Year's resolutions or plan a year in advance… you believe that planning should be based on the things you have to do (actions basically).
And here we would like you instead of thinking in terms of action to think projecting your thoughts so that you give the universe enough time to align things the way you want them to be (in short, using the universal laws in his favor). ~~ Abraham-Hicks ~~
The above quote is very important to help us understand why New Year's resolutions fail us, why very few people reach their expectations or reach their goals at the end of the year. The mistakes we've been making in setting New Year's resolutions are:
Mistake Number One: We set goals based on something we want to eradicate or avoid, and this is a vibrationally defensive place. By doing this, we are more focused on what we don't want, rather than what we do want, this is a bit tricky because with words we express one thing and with our vibrations we are requesting something totally different.
Mistake Number Two: The New Year's resolutions we choose are always the same, based precisely on what did not go well during the year that ends and from the conscious point of view that we have not been able to achieve it before.
So we formulate our New Year's resolutions from the low scale of emotions (disappointment, weakness, lack, fear, disbelief, need for survival, etc.).
Mistake Number Three: We plan to reach our goals with actions and making an analysis of the steps we will have to take, the amount of effort it will take us, the difficulty of the task, the probabilities of failure and all this leaves us tired and feeling powerless from In principle, it is not surprising that when we want to take action we are already too discouraged and even full of insecurities about the task that lies ahead.
Mistake Number Four: We believe that we are going to have to do it all by ourselves, without help from the universe and without taking into account the synchronicities or signs of our inner guidance.
Mistake Number Five: We make our goals too specific and this approach closes other possibilities or avenues in which the universe could deliver our desires to us.
Mistake Number Six: We ask for very little, we do not dare to dream big, we continue within our comfort zone, settling for what comes out and we set ourselves very insignificant goals such as losing weight, having more friends and things that do not require it to be It is necessary to try different methods or stretch our limits within which we have been pigeonholed.
The old method of New Year's resolutions does not work because it is built under the old paradigm - that we are victims of circumstances rather than creators of our own reality - in that old paradigm we think we are alone and we feel powerless to change.
And in that paradigm we also believe that our life will change someday if God wants or if our family wants, or if the government behaves well, or if there are no political changes, and that if everything goes well then we can achieve our goals. But if any of these external forces get in the way then the thing is already ruined.
It may be the best year of your life
Next year may be the best you have had if you take into account the points mentioned and especially if you prepare energetically to leave everything behind that did not go well during this year (since energetically we take the problems to the next year) Yes from Now you focus on closing this year and doing activities or exercises that focus your mind on "joyous expectations" I assure you that this year will be the best year of your life.
If from this moment you begin to prepare or rather to "Create" your next year I guarantee that you will take a quantum leap in all areas of your life and I say this from experience.
