In these times when there is more competition, more population, more things to do, more jobs, it is when we have more opportunities to help others. This means that we need to be more willing to solve all difficulties and transform them into great opportunities.
This behavior of the human being is manifested by transforming what seemed impossible into something possible, it is turning a NO into a Yes. It is an act of magic, it is the ability to act with a true disposition to help! I think we have all gone through the mysterious and many times inexplicable experience of receiving a "can't" in response to a request for help.
Let's see if you agree with me
All of us in some moment of trouble have felt the debilitating experience of hearing responses such as:
- That is difficult. It can not. There is no. We are no longer on schedule to do that. No, excuse me, but you cannot, because of company policies. I would love to help you but I have no way of doing it, sorry, you cannot. Close. Better for another tour or come back another day.
Have you ever encountered obstacles like these? Well, me too. But the great difference is that some people when they hear this type of denial believe it and others do not believe it! And it is then that they maintain their ideal despite the apparent evidence that hinders them. It is the same ideal that disappears in those others. people who believed that it was not possible because someone without disposition said no.
What is the common denominator of all these denial attitudes towards a request? Strong answer: Total lack of true disposition to help.
In my experience I have been able to verify, indisputably, that when you find yourself with the happiness of having someone with a true disposition to help, everything that seemed impossible and, in fact, it was so in the face of various evidences, turns into something perfectly possible and achievable.
In fact, it can be done. But how was it ultimately achieved? Only with the true disposition to help of that other who managed to do what others deemed impossible. Someone with a disposition is a magician, transforming things and circumstances that others believed impossible into possible.
There is always a way to achieve things As impossible as it may seem, no matter how contrary they are to any rule, no matter how much evidence shows that the objective cannot be reached, at the end of the story, if there is availability by the parties involved, of course it can!
Everything can. It's just a matter of that powerful, magical and transformational ingredient: disposition.
Curious and motivating is that the dictionary of the Spanish language defines the word “disposition” with meanings such as the following: “Courage and gentleness in the person”. Another: "As a courtesy formula to offer one person to another."
There is also: "Find yourself fit and ready for some purpose." That's why willing people feel so good, because they feel immensely useful to other people.
See it for yourself! Apply the knowledge you have obtained from this article and analyze many coworkers, vendors or service providers: their frustration is obvious, you see them leaning on the counters with the illusion that no one will come and that the time to go. And it is logical, they have no provision.
Many people have not awakened their disposition and believe that someone else should awaken it. The human being by herself can awaken her disposition of total help and there enter the paradise to find meaning in her life, it is when the person takes a mission and only rests, physically and spiritually, when she fulfills her goal.
It is there when the disposition generates the strengthening experience of a commitment, the same one that does not accommodate the option of “you cannot”. It is when it is not known who is happier, if the person with total disposition to help or the helped, when they achieve their mission together.
Willing people are what our country needs.
Do you want to have disposition and live the magic of life?
Fall in love with helping people. Even if you don't really like your job, you still have all the capacity to refocus your activities and develop them to the sense of help. There, as if by magic, you start to feel good in your work. And if you still definitely don't feel good where you work… what are you doing there! Go out and help in other ways.
The fear of running out of work is nothing more than fear of running out of money, but if you have understood the message that I am presenting to you today, money will never be needed as long as you are willing. In your mind you must think: How can I serve you ?, and at the first response that pops up in your mind, action!
Help. It serves. In a word, be willing. If I had to synthesize everything I have told you in this article, I would say:
There is so much power in you if you really wanted to use it for the benefit of others!
So much is accomplished if you really wanted to collaborate with your help!
Being willing to help is not heroism but joy experienced by the passion to serve, where the experience of investing that time in achieving the desired goal is more enjoyable. The willingness to help is to serve others without asking for anything in return, is to give a sincere hand to solve the problem and achieve the solution.
Thought: "Each of us are angels with only one wing, and we can only fly when we hug another." Luciano de Crescenzo.
