Starting a year represents a unique opportunity to make the necessary changes that allow us to improve our living conditions. It is the best time to make the commitment to overcome old negative habits and change them for positive ones, with the possibility of renewing your body, mind and spirit, thus changing your lifestyle.
Transformation is a process that must be started from the inside out, and self-assessment is decisive for achieving it successfully. Surely year after year you make a huge list of purposes that you do not achieve, because you lack the will, passion and perseverance to achieve them. You have to find a new and positive meaning in your life, to achieve the feeling of fulfillment even when you still have goals and purposes to achieve.
It is important that you take the time to reflect on it, until you can define what you want to do and how you want to live each day. Venture to look inside yourself, stop evading yourself assuming more commitments and responsibilities than you can fulfill or manage, ask yourself what you really want. Where do you want to go? What is the place you want to occupy in the world? And get ready to answer yourself without loss of time, with courage, trust and honesty… Only then, your life will begin to be a different experience.
Plan the year
New Year's resolutions are a list of intentions where you want to erase that part of you that you don't like. Set new goals for yourself this year to improve your relationships with family and friends, to reach moments of great happiness; and you will see that some, with the passage of time, will become a reason for immense satisfaction with the result.
Happiness is possible and depends on our ability to perceive and value everything positive that is in our life. You are happy from the moment you feel comfortable with who you are, with the people with whom you share life, with the things you have and with the task you do every day. Identify your purposes in life and when you wake up each morning, ask yourself what you can do during the day to make them come true, and then focus all your attention on that goal.
Exercise your habits
Take responsibility for yourself. Overcome any feelings of victim you may have, remember that you are only a victim of yourself, when you allow others to affect you with their comments or attitudes. Decide to be happy! And it starts with having the courage to set limits.
Ask yourself until where and until when. Stop complaining and regretting… Think that you are perfectly capable of creating the life you want. Stop waiting and start acting!
Live in the present. The best way to have a full life is to live moment by moment. Stop suffering from the negative aspect of your past and avoid worrying about the uncertainty of the future, live in the present with the commitment to do your best to build a wonderful future.
Have a positive attitude. Develop the habit of always looking for the positive within each situation, even if it initially seems negative. The ability to see situations, people or memories from a more positive perspective allows you to get out of pessimism and the passivity with which you assume life.
Create personal celebrations. It is important to learn how to create your own rituals to celebrate your special moments. This way you highlight the importance and value they have for you. You don't need to wait for the dates to celebrate. You can celebrate the fact of being alive, the presence of your partner, the reunion with a friend…
Have quality moments. Special events always come in due time, when the heart is ready and the time and conditions are conducive to the event. Don't let obligations and excessive worries prevent you from enjoying small quality moments. Saving spaces in your daily routine to talk with your partner, to read a story to your children, to meditate, to listen to someone who needs it, this can give a renewed meaning to your existence.
Share with family. Many times the family routine becomes an experience full of duty, recriminations, demands and obligation. Make a commitment to renew your family space !! Dare to have a meal together at some time of the day, the conversations of the soul that are what allow you to speak with confidence, respect and love, share memories of your childhood fun or enriching… All this with the intention of strengthening the ties that will keep you always united through affection.
Dream big. The dreams you treasure give you the motivation and drive to live fully. When you have a purpose, your days acquire a renewed meaning, you recover the passion and charm for life. Persevere in your commitment to do what is necessary to fulfill your dreams, focus your attention on each step you take and learn to enjoy the process that will lead you to realize them.
Find your life purpose
Having purpose in life makes the difference between living fully, and simply existing. Successful people succeed on purpose; Its success is the result of a preconceived and implemented plan. Your action plan is the road map that will lead you to the achievement of your goals, dreams and aspirations. Imagine being able to visualize your highest or greatest calling, your true purpose, developing your success plan towards a performance full of passion and fulfillment. We all want to be successful, but sometimes we are not clear on the path to follow to achieve success.
Take responsibility: In a society in which people blame everyone, from their parents to the government for their inability to get ahead, successful people rule out taking on that victim attitude, and instead take responsibility for what happens in their lives. own lives affirming "Everything is within my reach, and it is up to me to reach it." If until now you have lived your life according to the opinion that others have of you, it is important to remember that the opinion of another does not have to become your reality. By assuming your responsibility, you invent your reality day by day through your conscious decisions executed through your will.
Live with a purpose: Few things have the power of having a clear purpose in life. Living with purpose is having the determination to do what you are convinced you came to do in this life, and to be committed to doing it with excellence. Once you find a purpose you love what you do, and it shows, and people want to relate to you because they perceive your commitment to excellence. But how do you find a purpose? Simple, choose a cause you believe in, and find a way in which you can use your skills to the best advantage of everyone involved, including yourself.
Create a plan: The difference between a dream and an achievable goal is that the goal has a date. If you want to reach your goals in the shortest possible time and enjoy the trip, start by writing them down as steps with dates to be achieved. And stay realistic, it is preferable to take several short steps that increase your confidence and security, and allow you to see more clearly the way to your final goal.
Persevere: It may sound obvious, but when you're committed to success, giving up isn't even considered an option. You must be willing to do what is reasonably necessary to achieve your goal. Devote as much of the day as you can to realizing your dream.
Constantly ask yourself, "Is what I'm doing closer to my goal?" If not, start doing something different, and remember "Persistence prevails, when everything else fails."
This and in all the years that follow, do not settle for being a simple spectator, better yet, become the protagonist of your own life.
