Is self-esteem the key to achieving success and staying on my projects as an entrepreneur?
The answer to the previous question is yes.
Many times we think that our emotional and rational behaviors are completely separate, and we are so wrong.
Yes, I know that you will probably not agree with me and tell me that you are a completely rational person, and that you manage your business or professional development only with your intellectual abilities.
But let me show you that it is not this way.
Have you ever had a relationship or family problem that has bothered you greatly?
Sure yes we all have had it at some point
Can you focus on your work and perform 100% or the same as when you are serene and calm?
Sure not.
Now that we have agreed that our feelings and emotions affect and influence our professional development, let me tell you that the same thing happens with our self-esteem.
When we think that we do not have the necessary capacities, or the abilities to achieve what we want and want, it is actually what we obtain.
Many times it is associated with our beliefs about what I deserve, or what I am worth.
When my self-esteem is low, when the ideas that I have about my skills or abilities is that they are not necessary or sufficient to perform as a good professional, or entrepreneur, that is the image that I will project to others, that is, it is the message that I will give about myself, and it is the one that my interlocutor will receive.
With which he will understand that I am not the most suitable person to carry out this undertaking and will look for someone with more capabilities to do so.
But why does it happen, if I really want to get ahead?
Because one thing is what we say verbally, and another thing is what our body language projects to others.
Have you been in a conversation in which you feel that what the person is saying has not just closed to you?
Or where do you think he won't do what he says, even though he claims he will?
Well, this is because there is a difference between what we say with our language and what we say with our body.
Our unconscious picks up the signals and that is how we realize that what the other person is proposing is not entirely true.
If we can capture this type of signal in others, it means that others also capture it in us, and our unconscious will give them the necessary and sufficient signals to affirm that we think that we do not have the required suitability.
What to do, how to do it?
First of all we must realize that we have a difficulty, which is not that we do not have the required luck but that our belief system or the set of ideas that we have about ourselves becomes a barrier, a limitation and does not allow us develop as we would like.
And therefore we must work on it, avoiding "self-sabotage"
It is also necessary that we understand that we can raise self-esteem and make it become our ally when it comes to achieving goals and objectives.
